“Shy girls take time to open up”
Girls who are shy may appear boring at first glance, but the truth is that they just don’t know how to communicate what they want from you. They haven’t ever really opened themselves up to a relationship before, and don’t know what to do next. With a little bit of patience and guidance, you will find that shy girls can actually be the kinkiest of them all with a push in the right direction. Once they’re in touch with their inner passion and more confident, you’ll be rewarded. And even if she’s not into getting super freaky, chances are you’ll discover a wonderful relationship if you can get past her initial unsure and awkward front.
Reading Her Body
Your best clues in the beginning will all come from her body language. Watch the way she responds to you and the different ways you approach her. Chances are she’ll clam up pretty fast, and the key to reversing this syndrome is putting her at ease and getting her to relax. In the beginning, touching her will probably make her more nervous so you’re the best bet is to figure out what her hobbies are. Talk to her about something that interests her and she’ll be able to focus on something besides your manliness and have a chance to calm down in your presence. When she opens up and her eyes start to sparkle while she talks, you’re on the right track! Keep her interested in you by remembering her favorite things and keeping in touch daily.
Knowing When To Take The Next Step
“Try touching her gently”
As shy girls are always awkward as you progress in the relationship it’s hard to know when to take your relationship to the next level. Even if they’re interested and hot for you, their nerves can get the better of them. You can do your best to communicate and talk it out before actually having sex, but sometimes “Yes, I’m ready,” can still mean they’re not prepared to take the next step. It’s important to remember not to get mad or petty if they back out of sex at the last minute the first few times. You’re never going to get there if you act like a jerk and make her feel self conscious all over again for not giving you what you wanted. You have the potential to destroy the entire relationship with this lack of understanding.
Boost Her Self Confidence
In the end, how she feels and relates to you is all about her own self-confidence. You don’t want to make her feel bad about herself or self conscious around you if you want to convince her to get naked with you. Make sure to take time to compliment her on her looks, and be sensitive to her desires. Make sure you don’t make her feel guilty for taking the relationship at her pace or you won’t get anywhere fast. The more fun you can have together, the better she will feel and in turn the more she will open up to you.