“Don’t say that you love her, but show it to her”
If you have never been a particularly romantic guy, you may find that you struggle with small displays of affection in your dating life. Women always seem to want a charming guy who’s a romantic at heart, and while they may not express it outright, they often want you to show her that you care. You probably think that your regular relationship should be proof enough, but for some women they want you to take the extra step. Showing her that you care about her is a great way to make your relationship more exciting and passionate, so there are a few simple things you can do to make her smile and reassure her that you really care.
Write Her Secret Little Notes
While this may be slightly too cutesy for your taste, it can really win a woman over. Write little notes and stick them in various places for her to find, but don’t mention it until she finds it. Try writing down a compliment or something that she did that you appreciated. While this might seem cheesy, it lets your girlfriend know that you were thinking about her and that you feel strongly enough to let it be known to her. For some women, this is as good as a love confession in terms of how happy it will make them. You don’t need to do it all the time or even that often, but just give it a shot when something comes to mind. You might just be surprised by how much she appreciates it, and how she chooses to show that appreciation.
Send Her Texts throughout the Day
“Send her cute text messages many times a day”
You don’t want to bombard her with texts about inconsequential things, but sending her a text every now and then for no real reason can score you big points. Send her a text when you wake up in the morning and before you go to bed to show her that you’re thinking about her all throughout the day. Send her texts when you see something funny, or send her a text to let her know you were thinking about her. As long as you keep it somewhat sparse, she’s sure to appreciate it. Just don’t do it so often that she begins to take your texts for granted.
Gifts Aren’t Just for Holidays
Buying your girlfriend small presents for no real reason can be a great way to show her that you care about her. Buying her presents for holidays is one thing, since that’s more or less expected. However, buying her a small present for no real reason is spontaneous and exciting, so she’s sure to appreciate it even more. It doesn’t even have to be anything expensive. As long as you get something that you think she will like and let her know that it made you think of her, she’s sure to go starry-eyed over it. Just the fact that she was on your mind enough that you had to buy something for her is usually what makes her happy, and not what you actually bought.