“Ask her to give you a ride”
No matter how long you’ve been on the dating scene, chances are that you are used to dating girly girls – the hot girls at the bar who spend hours on their makeup and outfit so they look flawless – and not tomboys, who might not put as much effort into their appearance. Tomboyish girls can often be the exact opposite of the kind of woman you’re used to, but that doesn’t mean that they are not worth going out with or hooking up with. It might be a bit more difficult to know how to treat her and what will work with her, since the techniques that you usually employ with girly girls will likely not have the same effect.
Knowing What Not to Say to Her
Tomboys can sometimes be extremely sensitive about what guys say to them, and this goes for whoever they are dating or hooking up with. Knowing what you shouldn’t say to her will help you make the relationship as positive as possible. One thing you should avoid is ever suggesting things about her appearance unless you know for sure that she can handle it without getting upset. You should try not to suggest that she dress or act more feminine, even if you really think she should. This is going to be a big sore spot for her, so it’s best to avoid ever making mention of it unless you’re not invested in a future with her. You should also avoid comparing her to other women because it rarely sounds complimentary no matter how hard you try.
Where to Go on Dates
“Take her on an adventure date”
Knowing where to take a tomboyish girl on dates really isn’t as hard as you might think. You should find out what her unique hobbies are before you assume where you should take her, because even though she might look like a tomboy it doesn’t always mean she only wants to do boyish things. It’s usually safe to take her on typical dates like a dinner and movie combo, though you should stay away from anything too fancy until you know what she likes in particular. She may be more likely to want to go to sports events with you, but each girl is unique even if she doesn’t fit your normal feminine conventions.
What to Buy Her as a Gift
While every girl is different, you should definitely avoid buying a tomboyish girl anything that seems like a remark about her appearance. Stay away from buying her makeup or clothing, since she might think you’re trying to insult her looks, and she’s likely to be very sensitive about that. Jewelry is also not likely to be appreciated as much, but you should still give her gifts that make you think of her. As you spend more time with her, you’ll learn her unique preferences and know what makes a good gift. Remember to still treat her like a woman even if she’s fairly tomboyish, because otherwise you might give her a bad impression.